Krabi, Thailand, May 2012
Eric and I arrived in Krabi on an overnight train. The ride left me
disoriented and I woke up at dawn our first morning. We searched for
breakfast on nearly-empty streets. A woman walked through the main road
towards a temple on what I soon realized was a daily route. She left
food in piles for the stray cats and dogs that wandered around the area.
By the way they followed her, it was clear they expected her. It was a
rare chance to see the evidence of how someone matters to other
creatures, how much others rely upon someone’s acts of care.
Night Sky Hotel, Da Nang, January 2018
We
woke up to a power outage at our hotel. The hotel still served a full
breakfast by candlelight. We listened to the rain outside while the
chef, an older woman, instructed us on how to properly season and eat
our noodle soup. I devoured mine along with the mini creme caramel she
served. The women working the front desk insisted on high-level customer
service despite the outage. They carried luggage almost as big as they
were up the many flights of stairs, as the elevator wasn’t running.
Sunday Postcard is a new project where I share a photo and story each week.
View from the Belmont stop, October 2015
Every
weekday for two and a half years, I caught the Purple Line Express to
Evanston. There was one couple in their mid-thirties who took the same
route. If they were waiting when I got to the platform, I knew I’d be on
time to work. In my second summer, the woman was pregnant and had a
baby. For several months the man rode alone while she was on maternity
leave. I got to glimpse a small piece of their lives every morning. This photo is from the last day I commuted on that route. Though
we never spoke, I think of that couple as often as I remember the
sunrises over the lake.
The post title may have been more appropriate going into 2017, but I only thought of it now, so here we are.
For me, 2017 felt like living through several years at once. Here's a quick round-up of some of my favorite pieces of culture from the past twelve months:
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| The most French bicycle |
Books
Stay With Me by Ayobami Adebayo - This is one of the most remarkable books I've read. It follows a couple in Nigeria struggling with infertility while trying to push back against polygamy. Each twist is enough for its own novel, and yet Adebayo continues to surprise the reader with her precise look at a marriage.
No One Can Pronounce My Name by Rakesh Satyal - As I wrote in July, this novel follows two Indian immigrants in Ohio as they struggle with loneliness and grief. It's beautifully written and even side characters have depth and complications. It remains one of my favorite novels.
Dead Letters by Caite Dolan-Leach - A woman returns to upstate New York after her twin sister supposedly dies in a fire, yet seems to have set up a twisted scavenger hunt to draw her back from Paris. This remains a favorite from 2017 for its creativity and careful pacing.
Marlena by Julie Buntin - Cat examines the brief, intense friendship she had during high school with Marlena, a drug-fueled teenager she met after moving to northern Michigan. I hadn't realized how much I crave novels that examine the nuances of female friendship until I finished and wanted to reread it immediately.
Crazy Rich Asians and China Rich Girlfriend by Kevin Kwan - Economics professor Rachel Chu agrees to join her History professor boyfriend Nick Young at his best friend's wedding in Singapore. Little does she know that Nick's family is one of the wealthiest families in Asia. The first book is hilarious, dramatic, and heartwarming and somehow the sequel is even better. I'm partway through the final book in the trilogy, Rich People Problems, and can't get enough. Kwan's footnotes throughout are delightful.
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| March in Las Vegas |
It's been a busy few months! Here are a few things I've been making and enjoying while celebrating the longer days:
Writing
My first short story was published in June and I struggle to describe fully how much it means to me. It's set in Chicago at some of my favorite places. You can read it at Chicago Literati, a nonprofit online magazine:
I had my first comedy pieces published and am particularly proud of them. I feel that much closer to achieving my youthful dream of being Tina Fey. The Belladonna editors are great to work with and I highly recommend submitting your stories.
I've continued working with the Billfold, most recently to discuss graduation season and my ever-expanding wish list:
Now into February, I bring you my annual favorite things list from 2016! With so many bigger things to worry about as we start 2017, this list feels rather minor. It's more culture-focused than gift-focused this year, and I hope it provides some entertaining links and maybe something new that you'll like as much as I do.
Television
The Good Place
is the best show. Eleanor Shellstrop (Kristen Bell) dies and goes to
the Good Place, which is run by architect Michael (Ted Danson). She realizes it's a mistake - she's not the Eleanor who conducted humanitarian aid trips in central Asia - and
chaos ensues. The diverse ensemble cast matches Ted Danson's incredible energy
and comedic ability, and the character development and structure of the
Good Place provoke fascinating questions about the meaning of goodness. All episodes are currently available for streaming on nbc.com!
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| Broadchurch |
How
is 2016 going by so quickly? Most of the last few months have been
taken up by setting up our new place, bundling up through another
Michigan winter, and thinking ahead to the rest of the year. Here's a sample of some things I've found lately and loved:
Articles:
Choppers - Rebecca Scherm
"I wondered if the rabbit was negotiable.
'I don't think it's a snake,' my friend Nathan said. 'I think it's a dragon.'
'I don't think you should go through with this,' said pretty much everyone else."
MFA vs. CIA - Jennifer duBois
"Many of my characters feel a sense of their unlived lives flickering
around them; in my first few years of writing almost all of my narrators
were men. As both a writer and a reader, I seem to possess a steroidal
sense of credulity. “That wouldn’t happen,” I’d hear my workshop
colleagues say later on—but the thing about things that wouldn’t happen
is that once in a while, they do. And these make for interesting
stories, if there is anyone to tell them."
How millennials should deal with baby boomers at work - Ann Friedman
"Restraint, millennials on Twitter agree, is indispensable, even when
boomers aren't showing any. Older colleagues may drop comments such as,
“I have children your age!” Under no circumstance should you point out
that you have parents their age. Just smile and don't stop smiling for
the duration of your employment."
Women Leaving Tactfully in Western Art History - Mallory Ortberg
"oh gosh
I honestly wish that I could
but I
cannot
cross
running water
I thought that was witches
yes
that
I’m that thing
I’m witches, I’m too witches to come, sorry"
